Choosing your wedding’s colours? Here’s 7 top tips.


The colour scheme you chose for your wedding will set the scene for the entire day. Not to mention that it will be immortalised forever in all your wedding photographs. So no pressure there then.  Here are my seven expert tips for getting it right.

Number one: The flowers.  If you have your heart set on a favourite flower like blue nigella, coral peonies or yellow sunflowers, use them as a starting point for putting together your wedding colour palette.  It doesn’t have to be the dominant colour in your palette, maybe use it as an accent colour, the key thing is not to choose something like the bridesmaids’ dresses and then realise it doesn’t work with the colour of your favourite bloom.

Number two: The venue. This is a big one. Don’t decide your wedding colour scheme without considering your venue.  If there’s a distinctive colour in the decor, play to it, don’t try to compete with it.  If it’s a dark venue with panelled wood walls or soft lighting, dark coloured flowers will recede – although that can totally work if you are trying to create an opulent, dramatic look. Take a look at the curtains, carpets and walls – is there anything there that will clash with or swamp your colour palette?  Is there anything there you can use for inspiration?

If your wedding reception is going to be in a marquee, avoid all-white flower arrangements (unless there’s plenty of green too) because they’ll merge into the background.  If you’re getting married when your venue’s Christmas decorations are going to be up, it’s a good idea to ask what they’re planning and what colours they will be.

A Bride and Groom at Caswell House

Number three: The mood. Think about the mood you’re trying to create for your wedding and then use the colour palette to paint the scene for you.  Is it lavish and intimate (dark jewel colours)?  Is it joyful and informal (bright colours)?  Is it romantic and chic (soft blush shades)?

Number four: The season. You could decide to be in tune with the time of the year that you’re getting wed.  If it’s in the autumn, plum and berry tones are fabulous.  If it’s spring, you may be inspired by the colours of tulips.  If your wedding day is in the winter, perhaps silvery frosts or deep, warm, rich colours will be your starting point.

Number five: The clothes. If your Groom planning on wearing the family tartan and it’s green and yellow, bear that in mind before you set your heart on a pastel colour scheme.  And remember to consider your Bridesmaids’ colouring before you pick out a dress colour that doesn’t suit them. Everyone needs to look lovely in the photographs (and feel happy in what they are wearing).

Number six: Look to what you love. Colour fashions are great for inspiration, but like all fashions they come and go.  As always, it’s best to chose something that you love and that you feel is your own. Take a look at your favourite clothes, and remind yourself, what colours do I love to wear? What colours have I painted my walls? What colours make me feel good?

Number seven: Get some help. Call on the experience of your floral designer or wedding planner to help you decide on your perfect colour palette.  We’re full of inspiration that can help create a look that’s perfect for you and suggest colour combinations and contrasts that you may not have thought of.

Nicola

Instaworthy 1 – Floral wreaths


If you’re busy day dreaming about the perfect florals for your big day you’re probably spending a lot of time swooning at images on Pinterest and Instagram. So, I thought I’d help out with a series of posts on instaworthy flower inspirations.

Floral wreaths are first on my list. They’re the perfect way dress up the entrance door or gate that leads to your wedding. They make a gorgeous way to welcome guests and also hint at the floral styling everyone can expect to see throughout the rest of the day.

Heart-shaped wreaths are a romantic twist on circular ones, although I also like the symbolism of a circle, which represents eternity (which is why we exchange wedding rings). Depending on your wedding’s style and venue, the wreath can be as simple as twisted twigs and foliage or more extravagant florist foam shapes covered with beautiful blooms.  Which would you choose?

Nicola

She wore flowers in her hair


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I totally adore flower crowns, they are so romantic and goddess-like. Really shouldn’t every woman wear flowers in her hair at least once and if not on her wedding day then when?

Take a little look around Pinterest and you’ll find them everywhere and in all different styles. Full and blowsy, delicate and ethereal, all the way around, tiara-like, colourful, muted. I love them all and always enjoy designing and creating them for my brides, each one is a work of art. They are so personal to each bride and how she wants to look and feel on her wedding day.

Flower crowns are also popular accessories at summer festivals where they are synonymous with festival fashion in a way that harks back to the flower love of sixties’ hippies..

I run flower crown sessions for hen parties, so if you’re planning yours, give me a shout. You’ll have fun and, when you’re finished, you’ll be a glorious gaggle of goddesses!

 

Nicola

 

Clouds of peonies


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Is there anything lovelier than a cloud of peonies? Lush, fluffy, romantic and totally captivating, it’s no wonder peonies are the flower most asked for by my brides. However, these gorgeous blooms have a short season – late April through to the end of June – so if they are a must for you, plan your wedding date accordingly.

The dark secret no-one ever tells you about peonies is just how stubborn they can be. Often they arrive from the wholesaler in bright, hard green little buds. Days of coaxing then ensue to make sure those buds open up into beautiful, full, heart-singing blooms. Want to know the best way to make that happen? Bash those little buds hard on a table. Seems like a cruel way to treat such a beauty doesn’t it? But it helps open the hard green outer sepals like a charm. Many a florist has lost sleep over these darlings but they are so worth it!

 

Nicola

 

A word about buttonholes


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You know the thing about buttonholes is that they needn’t be boring. Just because your average groom isn’t really interested in what’s pinned to his lapel – within reason of course – doesn’t mean they should be overlooked. Hey, they’re going to feature in many of your wedding photos after all. In this florist’s opinion, buttonholes can be fabulous if you just sprinkle a little creativity in their direction.

One of my favourite ways to treat a buttonhole is the mix-matchy style of buttonhole creation. Of course, for many more formal weddings these wouldn’t really hit the spot, but for a boho or rustic style weddings, the more informal style of buttonhole suits the occasion perfectly. Stick to a colour palette, yes, by all means, as it can help to pull the look together, but why not have a little fun and see what happens.

These buttonholes were created for a boho wedding at the achingly cool The Asylum in Peckham. The bride and her bridesmaids carried lush, loose unstructured green foliage only bouquets, trimmed with cobalt blue sequin ribbon, and the guests wore these rainbow coloured buttonholes tied with bright twine.  I particularly loved the orange alstromeria – it was just the most perfect shade. Hurrah for non-boring buttonholes.

 

Nicola

 

Freehand


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Give a wedding florist a blank slate and you get genuine creativity and swoonable flowery beauty. That doesn’t always mean the biggest budget. With big budget weddings I get to have fun (and sleepless nights) creating large arrangements like hanging flower installations, but it can be the small budget weddings where the Bride is open to ideas about flower and colour combinations that can result in real beauty.

When it suits the couple and their wedding I always enjoy being bold with colour and textures. Bold florals offer a wonderful contrast between the Bride’s dress and white table linen – and white marquee interiors. Their bright aliveness also brings sense of joy to the wedding.

For Rose’s wedding flowers the inspiration came from the beautiful coral, orange, and pink clouds in a mesmerising mid-summer sunset at the end of a hot day. Because Rose and Tom’s big day was 21 June – summer solstice – that seemed particularly pertinent to their wedding.   The fact that Rose cleverly chose ivory lace dresses for her bridesmaids too made the look of the three of them holding their bouquets look incredible.

The bouquets were created with stunning coral peonies, pinky coral roses, pink peonies, white spray roses, coral spray roses, chamomile, phlox, astrantia pink sweetpeas, white snapdragons, blue nepeta, alchemilla mollis and thlasspi. And the result was totally swoonable.

As Elizabeth Gilbert says in her book “Big Magic: Creative Living Beyond Fear” “A creative life is an amplified life. It’s a bigger life, a happier life, an expanded life, and a hell of a lot more interesting life. Living in this manner—continually and stubbornly bringing forth the jewels that are hidden within you—is a fine art, in and of itself.”

 

Nicola

 

What’s in season when


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Spring brings so many treasures. There are acidic green euphorbia, many-hued tulips, anemones, clematis, hyacinths, narcissus, honesty, peonies, lilac, primula, ranunculus, forsythia, viburnum opulus, forget-me-nots, solomon’s seal and cherry blossom. From the hedgerows there’s cow parsley and briar roses and in the late spring branches of hornbeam look wonderful in large arrangements.

Summer offers us an abundance of beautiful blooms. Rubbing shoulders in the borders are nicotiana, bishop’s flower, delphiniums, foxgloves, roses, snapdragons, sweet peas, lilies, stocks, hollyhocks, honeysuckle, larkspur, marigolds, cornflowers, sweet william, love-in-a-mist and lavender. There’s lots of lovely foliage too like lady’s mantle and bells of Ireland, and the fields and hedgerows yield grasses and seed heads.

Autumn may be the season of mists and mellow fruitfulness but the country florist also has the pick of many beautiful flowers including hydrangeas, cosmos, dahlias, sunflowers, roses, michaelmass daisies, astilbe, penstemon and rudbeckia. Branches of autumn-tinted leaves give height and structure to large arrangements and from the hedgerows there are blackberries, elderberries, rosehips and wild apples.

Winter seems unpromising but there are plenty of wonderful flowers to choose from, many of them beautifully scented. There are amaryllis, anemones, hyacinths, camellia, crocuses, snowdrops, grape hyacinths, cyclamen, narcissus, ranunculus, skimmia and viburnum as well as fantastic berries, seed heads and evergreen foliage such as winterberry, rosemary, old man’s beard, ivy, mistletoe and spruce as well pussy willow.

Nicola

Starting a cutting garden


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Now’s the perfect time to make a start on your first cutting garden. All you need are a few packs of annual seeds, a well-prepared patch of garden and a couple of hours. There’s a little bit of hard work involved now but come the summer you’ll love coming back into the house with buckets full of real flowers ready for arranging. All of these annuals can be sown where they are to flower right now:
Calendula officinalis (English Marigold)
Cerinthe major purpurascens honeywort
Cornflowers
Cosmos
Sunflowers (try Vanilla Ice or Velvet Queen)
Nigella
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For foliage try growing Bupleurum Rotundifolium Griffithi and visit the garden centre for pots of nepeta (catmint). They clump up quickly to form large plants and in the early summer I like to cut their pretty blue flowers and soft blue-grey foliage. You could also cheat and buy some alchemilla mollis plants as their bright green flowers are pretty much indispensable in cottage garden arrangements. It’s also not too late to order sweetpea plants from specialist growers on the internet.

When you’re deciding what to grow consider the colours of your flowers as you’ll want them to look pretty when arranged together. Also think about flowering periods so that your extend the time when you can cut from your patch. Annuals like cornflower and nigella will flower a couple of months after sowing, while cornflowers and cosmos won’t get into their stride until later in the summer and will carry on until the first frosts – as long as you keep picking.

When you’re preparing your patch of ground make sure you create a fine tilth to give your seeds the best possible chance. Then mark out straight lines that will be your guides for where to sow. Leave enough space in-between the line – 25 to 30cm – so that’s there is room for big, healthy plants to grow. Once sown water well with a watering can with a fine rose and keep watering if there’ a spell of dry weather.

Once the seeds are up and have two or three sets of leaves you’ll need to thin them out. It always seems so heartless but there needs to be a 25 to 30cm space between each plant (50cm for sunflowers). Some varieties will need pinching out to encourage bushy growth for example, pinch out the growing tip of sunflowers once they are 50cm tall.

Be eagle-eyed for slugs for they are your mortal enemy. I leave beer traps to try to control them, which seem to work well as long as I remember to refill them every couple of weeks. My chickens are very naughty too and will pick my young plants to pieces if they can. As your flowers grow you’ll need to provide support either with individual canes or square netting tied horizontally over the plants ready for them to grow through.

Finally, some advice on cutting your flowers: Don’t pick when the sun is hot, first thing in the morning and at dusk are best. Carry a bucket of water with you when you cut so that you can put the flowers straight into water (don’t forget to strip the foliage off the bottom of the stems). Invest in some proper floristry scissors as they really are the best things to cut flowers with and, finally, keep cutting to encourage your plants to keep flowering.

Next year, once you’ve been bitten by the cutting garden bug, you can add half-hardy annuals, bulbs and tubers to your cutting garden repertoire.

Happy gardening.

Nicola

January blues


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It’s an unpromising time of the year for seasonal flowers – or is it? In fact, January has lots to offer brides, mostly in the form of flowering bulbs or corms.
Top of my list of favourites is Paperwhite narcissus. They have a delicate purity, as well as a heady scent, that means they can hold their own in single flower bouquets (like these bridesmaid bouquets) as well as when used in mixed flower designs.
My other scented favourite is the wonderful hyacinth – I always have a bowl or two of these bulbs at various stages of growth around the house in January. As a cut flower they have amazing lasting powers, so amazing that the individual pips can be carefully cut off and used threaded on to wires to make delicate and scented napkins rings, crowns or bracelets. Hyacinths are available in pretty blue, lilac, pink and white as well as pale yellow.
If you’re looking for lots of colour choice, the amazing tulip is your flower. They’re the starlet of the January flower market, dazzling in their many hues – yellow, purple, white, pink, red, frilled, double, it can be hard to choose. Make sure your florist conditions them properly though. Tulips continue to grow after they are cut, and unless they’re prepared carefully, their stems will twist and bend.
I love wonderful anemones with their sooty black centres and pretty green leafy fringe beneath the flowers. They come in simple white (there’s a variety with a green not black centre that’s so pretty) but also rich, velvety dark blue, purple, red and cerise.
The most romantic of this little group of January lovelies, is the delicate-looking ranunculus. With it’s many, many petals and cupped shape, they look a little bit like tiny garden roses and, after peonies and roses, this is the flower most brides ask for when they come for their consultation. Book your wedding for the winter and spring months if you have your heart set on having them in your bouquet!

Nicola

Old man’s beard


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Old Man’s Beard, or Clematis Vitalba, is a wild clematis that scrambles profusely over many of the trees and hedgerows in this area. Apparently its presence indicates chalky soil, which must be why there’s so much of it growing on the Downs.

In the summer Old Man’s Beard produces many small creamy white flowers. At this time of the year the seed heads have become fluffy and white – like an old man’s beard – but earlier in the winter, when they are still green, they have a wonderful starry shape. Both look fabulous in winter flower arrangements. The fluffier and riper the seed heads become the more delicate they are and the more easily the fluff gets blown away. A quick squirt with hair spray keeps them in place and stops your flower arrangements from disappearing on to the floor (try to use one without a smell).

I have used them in several ways: Cut short in bouquets and table centres; long and trailing in large arrangements; and lots of lengths of the woody stems twisted into a circle to make a wintery wreath, with paperwhite narcissus pushed in around the circle (of course other flowers would look pretty too, hellebores for instance, but they wouldn’t last long out of water and you’d need to used orchid vials hidden behind the wreath to keep them fresh).

Old Man’s Beard’s other country name is Traveller’s Joy. In France it is known as ‘Herbe aux Gueux’ which means beggar’s or rascal’s herb as beggars were said to rub its acrid sap onto their skin to irritate it and make it look red and ulcerated. Good for business apparently but I think I’ll stick to using it for less painful purposes.

Nicola